Brainwashing al la Elmo

Oscar loves chocolate.  If we could have chocolate for dinner, we’d have a happy three year old and a very peaceful house.

But alas, apparently chocolate isn’t good for main meals, and so we must battle. Sometimes we reach a compromise and settle on vegemite toast, yoghurt or bananas for dinner but most often I stick to my guns and Oscar sits sullenly in front of a plate of untouched food, next to a nagging Mum who’s not only driving him nutty, but also the rest of the family.

I’ve tried negotiation.  I’ve tried flat-out bribery.  I’ve tried threats.  I’ve played good cop.  I’ve played bad cop.  All to little or no avail.

Oscar is a healthy, happy kid. He’s growing well and he never stops running, so my concerns are not nutritional.  Nonetheless, I do worry about the habits that are being learnt as he grows up…he is so quickly becoming a big boy and I know only too well how deeply ingrained eating habits can become. So I was getting desperate, I really needed to win this argument.

Last week I used a different approach in the hope of convincing Oscar that new food wasn’t enemy number one.  At the risk of being shown up as a not so perfect mother, I’d like to run this strategy past you as I’m interested to hear what people think about it…

I used the power of television. More specifically, the influence of one little red monster named Elmo.

Last week at the video shop, instead of Ben 10 or Toy Story, I convinced Oscar to choose Sesame Street’s Happy Healthy Monsters. After this, the ‘brainwashing’ commenced – happy monsters love to jump, happy monsters love to drink milk, happy monsters love to eat healthy, fresh food. And they do all these things with a great big smile ontheir face.

And guess what?  So did Oscar…

The process was helped no end by the play-along game Oscar found in the Extras section where Oscar was able to help Cookie Monster make salads, spaghetti and meatballs, fruit salad. I reinforced this by asking Oscar to help me cook dinner that night. I know it’s not a new idea, but I really did find that Oscar was much more interested in eating what he’d had a part in cooking.

We’ve had a much better go of it since then. It’s not perfect, but we’re certainly getting there. Oscar will now eat rice and vegetables, he’s loving fish and even though we have to call it ‘fish’, he quite likes chicken too.

So my question is this – does TV have a legitimate place in helping to teach children?  I know many people would say a big no, while others would say that it’s a means to an end and you do what you have to do to teach your kids the best of lessons.

What do you think?

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3 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. Kathy Petkoff
    May 03, 2011 @ 00:47:39

    I was raised in a household where the radio was on from the time we got up until start of transmission, when the TV would go on and stay on until transmission end. We were surrounded with language. We were surrounded by other people’s ideas. My children are allowed to watch appropriate TV when they like. I have found they are less obsessed with it than some children who are heavily restricted. They play, they read, they interact with each other and pretend play like the rest of them…. I don’t see the harm.

    I love your solution to this issue as I know you’ve been struggling with it for a while. What’s wrong with a little brain washing? 🙂 I’m going to keep this one in mind if little miss gets any worse with her eating! Ta!

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  2. That Book You Like
    May 03, 2011 @ 11:31:30

    I was talking to a friend tonight, and she made a really good point. After using a Sesame Street video to help her daughter cope with an upcoming hospital trip, she realised that actually seeing the the visual images in the video did more for her daughter in this instance than just reading it in a book. I wonder if this is because it is a kind of visual ‘proof’ that children need – seeing Elmo eat vegetables, seeing Big Bird getting an injection and being a-okay?

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