Women’s secrets in ‘The Red Tent’

Not all blood comes of violence.

This beautiful novel, The Red Tent by Anita Diamant shares the secret of blood not spilled, but rather cherished. It is a haunting insight into the private and largely untold stories of women in a biblical age, and of the Red Tent where they gather each month.

The novel tells the story of Dinah, daughter of Jacob and sister to Joseph. Dinah features only very briefly in the bible story that recounts the story of her many siblings, but in Diamant’s tale Dinah is front and centre. She is transformed from the invisible, to the influential and used as a vehicle to share a view of what it was to be a woman amongst women, and amongst rough men in a harsh and basic period of history.

‘We have been lost to each other for so long. My name means nothing to you. My memory is dust. This is not your fault, or mine. The chain connecting mother to daughter was broken and the word passed to the keeping of men, who had no way of knowing. That is why I became a footnote, my story a brief detour between the well-known history of my father, Jacob, and the celebrated chronicle of Joseph, my brother. On those rare occasions when I was remembers, it was as a victim.’

This story is part history, part romance, part violence and part inspiration. Despite being a work of fiction, it reads as incredibly authentic, and you can almost feel the heat and hardship that these characters live amongst. I found it incredibly fascinating to hear about the bonds shared between women, and of the conflicts and competitions that existed between wives and sisters. The story of the Red Tent with it’s camaraderie, restfulness and sweet aroma’s was intoxicating, and I was at once both horrifying and enlivened by the recounting of childbirth in a such a raw and non-medicalised world:

‘There was one great gift that my teachers learned from the women of Shechem’s valley. It was not an herb or a tool, but a birth song, and the most soothing balm that Inna or Rachel had ever used. It made laboring women breathe easier and caused the skin to stretch rather than tear. It eased the worst pains. Those who died – for even with a midwife as skilful as Inna some of them died – even they smiled as they closed their eyes forever, unafraid.’

The turn this story takes at its half-way mark is tragic, and references back to Dinah as victim in the biblical version of this story. It is both violent and heartbreaking and very nearly ends Dinah herself. It shows a darkness in Dinah’s family, but it is responded to in a hushed, measured but passionate way. In fact, that is how the whole book is voiced. It is hushed but heartfelt. It is deeply feminine.

I read The Red Tent with my book club, and I hear that it’s an absolute favourite amongst book clubs around the world. I think I understand why – the subject matter gives permission for women to share their own experiences with each other, about maturing, about childbirth, about family and about the relationships they share with men, and more interestingly perhaps with the other women in their lives.

Coming from a family of sisters, with a doting and inspirational mother, I appreciated the sense of women’s space and commune found in this story.  I fell head-first into this book, not surfacing again until the story was over. The setting, the biblical context of Jacob and his family was one that was really familiar to me, and this added to the richness of the story. As a result, the story was truly multi-dimension, and the way in which Diamant structured this novel reminded me of another of my favourites Rosencrantz and Guildenstern Are Dead, the play by Tom Stoppard which places Hamlet in the wings, and his bit-part colleagues centre stage. So clever.

When I heard Sophie Cunningham speak at the Melbourne Writers Festival a few weeks ago (read about it here, listen to it here) she spoke of female invisibility and of the failure to give voice to women’s stories. I thought of this book while I was listening to Sophie, and was grateful for this important, albeit fictional, illumination of a previously invisible woman.

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Through Jack’s eyes

Before my little hiatus, I finished reading Room, by Emma Donoghue and I’m keen to share my review with you while it’s still fresh in my mind. Here’s what I thought about this challenging book…

One of the main reasons that I decided to join a book club was for the chance to read something different. I was really keen to be told what to read for a change – to have a group of bookish people make the choice for me.

Room is most definitely not a book I would have chosen for myself. Not because I doubted it’s quality, but rather because I have a tendency to avoid such realistically bleak subject-matter. If I’m going to go ‘bleak’ I tend to insist on an apocalypse (Lessing’s Memoirs of a Survivor or McCarthy’s The Road) or at the very least a few zombies (I am Legend).

So, in saying that, I was really glad for the opportunity to be challenged to take on this book. It was an incredibly insightful novel, put together skilfully and to my relief it was not nearly as horror-mongoring as I thought it might be.

Donoghue’s Room is the painful story of Ma and Jack. It is poignantly told from the point of view of Jack, a eloquent five year old boy whose only experiences in life have been of ‘Room’ and ‘in TV’. We first join Jack and his mother as they are held captive by the monstrous ‘Old Nick’.

Old Nick is Ma’s kidnapper, having snatched her at nineteen and locked her away in a purpose-built, 11 feet square, soundproof cell. The kidnapper is of course Jack’s father, although this is a connection that Jack never makes – it’s a fact, like many others, carefully hidden from him by his mother. It is this type of hidden information, the gaps in Jack’s experience that make his perspective so unique and so fascinating.

The choice of Jack as storyteller makes all the difference in this novel…his focus is not on the monster (he scarcely knows Old Nick) but on his world and the characters within it, ‘Chair,’ ‘Table,’ ‘Tooth.’ His innocence is revealing, and leaves the reader in no uncertainty as to just how much we take for granted on a daily basis.


This novel is far less about the horror of crime and much more about the psychology of captivity.

Ma’s physical and emotional pain as captive is palpable, and Jack’s fear is heartbreaking, but it is the trauma of adjustment on their release from ‘Room’ that really made the hairs stand up on the back of my neck. It is not really until their release that Jack’s physical and emotional stunting becomes obvious, and it breaks the heart as it is gradually revealed just how much harm has been done to this small boy. You can almost smell Ma’s anger, pain and frustration as she tries to reintigrate, to explain her experience, and in some cases justify the choices that she has been forced to make over the years of claustrophobic confinement.

Emma Donoghue has clearly done her research, and written an intelligent and gripping novel. Room really is a can’t put it down kind of novel, and I’d strongly recommend it. It is a heartbreaking story handled with great sensitivity.


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Stay tuned for more Be My Guest fun tomorrow – I’m looking forward to sharing a music review with you from Amanda of Rumble Underground. Should be great weekend reading.

Wine, chocolate, books, devine…

Last night I attended my very first book club meeting, and I’m excited and inspired. It was a perfect night for it, cold, blustery, wintery…I can’t think of a better way to spend a night like that than cosied up at a friend’s house sharing a glass of wine, a bowl of chocolates and a love of books.

After a quick chat about dates, venues and kid-wrangling, we got onto the important business of choosing which books to read. My god, there’s so much to choose from! Not an easy task narrowing it down to half a dozen – talk about being spoilt for choice.

After a little discussion, we decided that for this month we’ll read Room, by Emma Donoghue. I’m bracing myself – it looks a little heartbreaking. Donoghue’s novel was shortlisted for the Man Booker Prize last year and is by many accounts a book to be read in one sitting (we’ll see about that). The blurb is enticing:

It’s Jack’s birthday, and he’s excited about turning five. He lives with his Ma in Room, which has a locked door and a skylight, and measure 11 feet by 11 feet. He loves watching TV, and the cartoon characters he calls friends, but he knows that nothing he sees on screen is truly real – only him, Ma and the things in Room. Until the day Ma admits that there’s a world outside…

I am really interested to hear what the group thinks about it, it seems like a dark read, but I’ve also heard that Donoghue’s choice to write from Jack’s perspective allows her to avoid it being all doom. I can’t quite imagine how a story like this could be anything but devastating, so I’m really looking forward to seeing how Donoghue has handled the subject matter.

I’ll report back on this novel in a month, after our next meeting.

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Jack of all trades likes a book shop

Because today I’m trying to be everything to all men, I’m doing a quick share post rather than a full blown ramble.

My friend Yolande (who obviously knows me quite well) sent me a link last week to a post on The Design Files. This is a really wonderful design blog, well worth a browse, but that’s not the only reason that Yolande sent it to me. She thought I’d be interested in having a look-see at Lucy’s little chat about a most wonderful bookshop in Thornbury, Perimeter Books. She was right…

Perimeter Books

You can read the blog article here, and you can visit Perimeter Books website here. The store and stock pictures are gorgeous, and like all good independent bookstores the shop looks incredibly inviting in its styling and its book collection. Just lovely.

As a quick aside before I go and finish cooking my soup, I’m going to my very first book club tonight and I’m really looking forward to it. Up until recently, I’ve mainly just thought about books, not so much talked about them, so it’ll be nice to chatter about readings with like-minds. I’ll let you know what we decide to read.

Oh yeah, and please don’t forget to enter our June Competition! Closes 16 June 2011, and I’d love to hear about your favourite things.

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